Small Plot With Big Theme

Jeff Who Lives At Home is very funny, that is if you like that sort of self-deprecating humour. The movie appears at the beginning to be one about a family of losers - a single boomer mother who hasn't found love in a long time; the oldest son who has a failing marriage and a boring job; and the younger son who keeps daydreaming and still lives at home with no job.

But the film is really about destiny - Jeff's (played by Jason Segel) theory is that everything and everybody in this universe is somehow interconnected. So if you're guided by your destiny, you'll be doing fine. Somehow this kind of topic is hot nowadays - the movie reminds me of Kiefer Sutherland's new TV drama Touch which is also aboout destiny.

I don't particularly like Jason Segel, but he seems to be omnipresent in movies lately. Plus he's dating Hollywood 'it' girl Michelle Williams. He plays the role well in this flick and is the soul of the entire movie. Ed Helms from The Office plays his older brother who seems to be confined within a pigeon-holed character all the time. Susan Sarandon, who plays the mother, is great in every performance and even though she needs to improvise for the first time in her entire career in this movie, she does a fabulous job. And she's well preserved at 65! Judith Greer is also one of those actors who needs to branch out into a broader role instead of constantly playing an insecure adulteress or wife (The Descendants).

I've never seen a Duplass brothers movie before but I quite like this one. They are big on improvisations and always go with small independent productions. Jeff Who Lives At Home is a small, simple plot with a big macro theme. But for those of you who do not go to cinemas that often, this one can probably wait till it appears on DVD.

Hope, Faith and Love in Yemen

Salmon Fishing in Yemen is really not a movie about fishing. It's a romantic comedy about hope, faith and love in the midst of a contemporary fairy-tale setting. Screenwriter Simon Beaufoy (Slumdog Millionaire) adpated the novel by Paul Torday (I heard the book is pretty good too) into a 'delicious' big-screen comedy.

I don't think anybody could resist the charms of both Emily Blunt and Ewan McGregor. The former plays what she does best - the lovely girl next door - and the latter plays an inflexible fisheries geek with a heavy Scottish accent. But the most entertaining role in the entire flick was given to the adorable Kristin Scott Thomas who is the extremely bossy and controlling press secretary to the British Prime Minister.

While I marvel at another of Thomas's masterpiece, I can't help but lament why public relations professionals are once again being ridiculed. From Wag The Dog to Game Change to this movie, public relations practitioners are presented as calculating, manipulative and controlling SOBs. A former colleague of mine challenged me last night over drinks that The Ides of March was an exception. Well, I don't think painting a bad picture of the media necessarily improves the perception of the public relations profession.

Ewan McGregor and Emily Blunt have the perfect chemistry in the movie although the two actors have not met before. Tom Mison who plays Blunt's boyfriend in the film may be more handsome, but McGregor's charisma and endearing Scottish accent just enable him to outshine everybody else.

Swedish director Lasse Hallstrom (The Cider House Rules, Chocolat) has done a fabulous job in making a complex story so appealing and entertaining - life is all about hope, faith and love when you strip down all the racial prejudices and biases, political manipulations and dramas, and even terrorism. This could be a story in Yemen, or it could be happening anywhere else in this world. Extra brownie points to Hallstrom who has the good taste to marry Lena Olin!

The Love Of One's Life

Romantic comedies are usually meant to be ridiculed for their cheesiness and rarely considered for subjects of discussion. Friends With Kids is unique this way - it's funny, smart, witty, and provokes post-flick conversations. Having seen the movie today, I finally understand why Jennifer Westfeldt, who produces, directs and stars in this movie, holds the heart strings to Mad Men's Jon Hamm (Westfeldt and Hamm have been romantic partners for 15 years and are still going strong). A brainy woman who can write and direct such a witty movie should be given more credit than just being Jon Hamm's girlfriend.

The movie is as "New York"ish as a Woody Allen movie but without the self-deprecating moanings and complaints. The dialogues are bold and, at times, outlandish with lots of references to sex and body parts of both genders. Even though it's got most of the Bridesmaids cast - Jon Hamm, Kristin Wiig, Maya Rudolph and Chris O'Dowd - you don't find any toilet humour in this one. I find it funny because it's a combination of situation comedy, farce, satire and romance with a constant quest to challenge traditional values.

Everybody is looking for the love of their lives in this movie, but how do you define the love of your life? The happiest couples while dating turn out to have the worst marriages. Love at first sight with the perfect man and woman of your dreams doesn't last either. And, in reality, kids can be spoilers of marriages and relationships even though they are bundles of joy at times. Being at the right time with the right person is as true as any sage old saying!

The lead actors and actresses are all renowned comedians, so I wasn't surprised that they are so good in their roles. But Jennifer Westfeldt and Adam Scott are sheer pleasures to watch, and even though Jon Hamm can be extremely funny (as demonstrated in his performances on Saturday Night Live), he deliberately takes on a more low-key role in front of the camera in support of his real-life partner, while being the Executive Producer for the movie as well.

Having raved about the movie overall, I have to say that the first half of the film is much better than the second half. If only Westfeldt could have taken her writing and directing talents further and been more bold in her artistic venture! But from a pure entertainment point of view, I have no complaints, particularly with the enhancement of "eye candies" such as Ed Burns (who's unfortunately much heavier in his 40's) and Megan Fox.

And who can resist the movie soundtrack, particularly music from the indie rock band The 88?

Nobody Is In The Wrong

I was never a foreign-language movie fan because I believe that one would usually lose the authenticity and true emotions if one can't understand the language of the story being told. Reading English subtitles is never the same as hearing the actors in our own language. But, more recently, I've been changing my mind and I'm now increasingly convinced that I should give foreign movies a chance. This was particularly true when I saw this year's Best Foreign Language Film from the Academy Awards, A Separation, from Iran.

Foreign-language movies always demonstrate greater artistic subtleties and often reflect their countries' unique cultural nuances. But A Separation is brilliant because the plot and dilemmas faced by the characters in the movie could apply to any culture. This was the first time I saw an Iranian movie and I was struck by the simplicity and stark morality of the film. The plot is simple - a couple's family begins to disintegrate because the husband and wife cannot come to an agreement: the wife wants to move to America and the husband refuses becauses he wants to stay in Iran to take care of his elderly Alzheimer-stricken father. The 11-year-old daughter is caught in between the parents she loves and life is becoming increasingly difficult for her.

This had to be one of the lowest-budget movies I've ever seen - no big stars, no big productions and shots of very simple everyday life in a busy city. But things are never as they seem. As with every separation or divorce anywhere in the world, there were already underlying problems to the couple's relationship before the wife wanted to move to the U.S. And the husband's reluctance is not as simple as just taking care of the ailing father.

What I also like about the movie is that there's really nobody in the wrong here: the husband is trying to be a dutiful son, making an honest living at the bank and helping his teenaged daughter with her homework. When he apparently saw elderly abuse, he lost it. The wife, as a strong woman in the Iranian world, wants to build a better life for the family by emigrating to the U.S. and she only wants the best for her daughter. Feeling guilty about what she's about to do, she has arranged for alternative help at home so that her father-in-law can be looked after. The poor housekeeper risks dishonouring the family (by helping wash an old man suffering from Alzheimer's without getting her husband's prior consent) because she wants to help out her neurotic and debt-laden husband. The teenaged daughter is just a normal, bright student wanting to lead a happy life, but, instead, finds herself caught in the web of conflict, lies, hatred, guilt, deception and justice.

In the end, we understand that Iranian women are the most honest souls beneath their burka-clad attire. In spite of the conflict between the two families, the two children have become friends. And, very often, throughout the movie, we see the world through the eyes of the two kids. The movie, like all other forms of great art, leaves us with an open ending that invites the audience to figure out what could be the conclusion. I've spoken to four friends who have seen the movie and some of us may agree while others have totally different interpretations.

When Iran is in the middle of such controversial confrontation with Israel and the rest of the world, such a win at The Oscars was best summarized by Asghar Farhadi, the director of A Separation, at the awards ceremony, "..at the time when we talk of war, intimidation and aggression is exchanged between politicians, the name of their country, Iran, is spoken here through her glorious culture....I proudly offer this honour to the people of my country, a people who respect all cultures and civilizations and despise hostility and resentment."