The Love Of One's Life

Romantic comedies are usually meant to be ridiculed for their cheesiness and rarely considered for subjects of discussion. Friends With Kids is unique this way - it's funny, smart, witty, and provokes post-flick conversations. Having seen the movie today, I finally understand why Jennifer Westfeldt, who produces, directs and stars in this movie, holds the heart strings to Mad Men's Jon Hamm (Westfeldt and Hamm have been romantic partners for 15 years and are still going strong). A brainy woman who can write and direct such a witty movie should be given more credit than just being Jon Hamm's girlfriend.

The movie is as "New York"ish as a Woody Allen movie but without the self-deprecating moanings and complaints. The dialogues are bold and, at times, outlandish with lots of references to sex and body parts of both genders. Even though it's got most of the Bridesmaids cast - Jon Hamm, Kristin Wiig, Maya Rudolph and Chris O'Dowd - you don't find any toilet humour in this one. I find it funny because it's a combination of situation comedy, farce, satire and romance with a constant quest to challenge traditional values.

Everybody is looking for the love of their lives in this movie, but how do you define the love of your life? The happiest couples while dating turn out to have the worst marriages. Love at first sight with the perfect man and woman of your dreams doesn't last either. And, in reality, kids can be spoilers of marriages and relationships even though they are bundles of joy at times. Being at the right time with the right person is as true as any sage old saying!

The lead actors and actresses are all renowned comedians, so I wasn't surprised that they are so good in their roles. But Jennifer Westfeldt and Adam Scott are sheer pleasures to watch, and even though Jon Hamm can be extremely funny (as demonstrated in his performances on Saturday Night Live), he deliberately takes on a more low-key role in front of the camera in support of his real-life partner, while being the Executive Producer for the movie as well.

Having raved about the movie overall, I have to say that the first half of the film is much better than the second half. If only Westfeldt could have taken her writing and directing talents further and been more bold in her artistic venture! But from a pure entertainment point of view, I have no complaints, particularly with the enhancement of "eye candies" such as Ed Burns (who's unfortunately much heavier in his 40's) and Megan Fox.

And who can resist the movie soundtrack, particularly music from the indie rock band The 88?